Relationship Synastry
Post # 6
Next in
the Ascendant Analysis is 6/8 relationship. It means X person’s ascendant is
6th to Y person’s ascendant, hence Y person’s ascendant is 8th to X person’s
ascendant. It is like a relationship between Aries-Virgo people or
Scorpio-Gemini people.
Now, what
will be the results?
1. 1st of
all, first person is activating 6th house of other person and other person is
activating 8th house of first person after they get into a relation. Now, what
are these houses?
2. 6th
house is house of conflicts, disputes, litigation, debts and diseases etc. 8th
house is the house of major changes, ups/downs, instability and sudden events
etc.
3. Among
all relationship ascendant combination, this is the one which is the most
serious and capital NO. Reason is simple that one person is bringing conflicts
and disputes in relationship and other person is bringing instability in
relationship. So, this relationship will either have conflicts or they will
have continuous changes.
4. As you want some stability in
life, it is advised to avoid this 6/8 synastry as these relations may never get
stable.
5. This relation can also bring the
possibility of health issues, accidents, surgeries and debts etc for partners.
Hence, it should remain in the bucket of avoidable relations.
6. Then
there are some 6/8 ascendants like Sagittarius/Cancer or Taurus/Sagittarius
which are ruled by benefic planets. For these people, intensity of conflicts or
changes may be lesser but still they will have conflicts and instability in
relationship. There are some ascendants in 6/8 relation for which ascendant
lords are enemies and malefic planets. There it must be totally avoided.
7. Only
way, this relation may work is through a long distance relationship. If they
are staying together then they are bound to invite some conflicts to each
other. Another way is always awareness. If both partners are aware that these
are the limitations in their chart and they are supposed to work within such
limitations, then they can avoid many small conflicts.
8. But
this is where the overall chart analysis is also important. Like, being a
Scorpio ascendant, I was always pleasantly surprised that most of my long time
friends are either Gemini ascendant or Gemini Moon Sign. I could never
understand why because Gemini/Scorpio are in 6/8 relation and their lords
Mercury & Mars respectively are great enemies, till one day a friend of
mine told that it is because Gemini falls into my 8th house where I have a
Shubh Kartari Yoga happening between exalted Moon and exalted Jupiter. So, in
between those 2 exalted planets, Gemini people find peace in my company. That’s
why, whole chart needs to be analysed thoroughly.
Let’s
check it ascendant-wise as ascendant lords can change the equation little bit
here –
a. For
Aries-Virgo, Gemini-Scorpio, Leo-Capricorn & Aquarius-Cancer ascendants,
this relation is strictly avoidable as not only it is 6/8 relation but the
ascendant lords for these ascendants are great enemies to each other. These
people can have continuous conflicts or instability in relation.
b. For
Virgo-Aquarius and Capricorn-Gemini ascendants, ascendant lords
(Saturn-Mercury) are mutual friends but presence of heavy Saturnian energy is
enough to bring stress in their relationship.
c. For
Cancer-Sagittarius and Pisces-Leo ascendants, this relation may still work with
some conditions as stated above, because ascendant lords Moon-Jupiter and
Jupiter-Sun are best friends. Relationship can still have its instability but
it might sustain due to friendship and benefic nature of lords. But it is certainly
not advisable still.
d. For
Libra-Pisces and Sagittarius-Taurus ascendants, although the ascendant lords
(Venus & Jupiter) are benefic planets by nature but they are mutual
enemies. So, these ascendants will still have some instabilities and conflicts.
e. I
think the best bet here will be Taurus-Libra and Scorpio-Aries ascendants in
relation as the ascendant lord here is same planet for both ascendants, i.e.
Venus and Mars respectively. Even in them, Taurus-Libra is better bet as the
lord Venus is benefic planet and karaka of relationship.
f. Still,
first advice for this 6/8 relation is serious and capital NO.
Obviously,
we need to look at whole chart of both persons involved and check their dashas
to get the complete idea. From this analysis, we can only understand that if
one sign or one planet can cause issues in relationship then how many issues
can be seen through 12 signs and 9 planets. This is my intention behind writing
this series to make people aware that there is no ideal relation, no ideal marriage
and no perfect partner.
Hope this helps. Thanks,
SPB