Relationship Synastry
Post # 3
Next in
the Ascendant Analysis is 3/11 relationship. It means X person’s ascendant is
3rd to Y person’s ascendant, hence Y person’s ascendant is 11th to X person’s ascendant.
It is like a relationship between Aries-Gemini people or Taurus-Cancer people.
Now, what
will be the results?
1. 1st of all, first
person is activating 3rd house of other person and other person is activating
11th house of first person after they get into a relation. Now, what are these
houses?
2. 3rd
house is house of efforts and hard work. 11th house is house of gains and
desires. So, we can say that this is going to be one of those unfair
relationships where one person will put all the efforts to sustain the
relationship and other person will gain from those efforts.
3. As 3rd
house is house of efforts and hard work, this relationship requires continuous
hard work to sustain itself. It is like a continuous work in progress from both
the sides but generally it happens that only one person ends up in putting all
efforts in relationship. In western astrology too, the 3rd aspect of planets is
considered as the aspect of hard work and efforts
4. Then
if we see closely then lords of signs which are 3rd and 11th to each other are
never friends. For ex – Aries lord Mars and Gemini lord Mercury are enemies.
Likewise, Scorpio lord Mars and Capricorn lord Saturn are enemies. So, this
mutual enmity between lords here makes this relationship more troublesome.
5. At the
same time, 3rd house and 11th house are Upachaya Houses. So, we can say that
these relations can grow better with time but again, it would require efforts
from both partners.
6. 3rd
house and 11th house are also houses of entrepreneurship. So, if both partners
dedicate themselves to one common business and service to people through it
then this relationship can prosper with time.
7. More
important than that, 3rd house and 11th house both represent your friends or
networking circle. So, if both partners approach this relation as a friendship
then this relation can prosper.
8.
Overall, this is a relation which will require a continuous effort and work
from both sides to prosper.
9. We can
look at it ascendant-wise starting from Aries to Taurus etc but the common
theme with every ascendant is that ascendant lords are not friend to each
other. Only in Gemini-Leo relationship, ascendant lords Mercury & Sun
respectively are neutral towards each other. Otherwise, for all ascendants,
ascendant lords is this relationship synastry are enemies. So, 3rd/11th
relation between 2 enemy planets show that for any ascendant, it will be
difficult relation and require lots of hard work and efforts from both
partners.
Hope this
helps. Thanks,
SPB